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Created on 2009-05-01 02:37:00 (#140255), last updated 2016-10-10 (53 weeks ago)

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Who am I?
Cisgendered (mostly) female. Twenty-something. British. Unitarian. Poly/asexual-leaning lesbian. Childfree by choice. Invisibly disabled (bipolar disorder, Ehlers-Danlos syndrome type III/hypermobility syndrome, secondary fibromyalgia, asthma). Choral mezzo-soprano/alto. Adopted Mancunian. Writer. Poet. Reader. Web designer. Fandom geek. Big sister of [livejournal.com profile] gaia_kiari. Animal lover, cat person, & wandering spirit.


Me according to other people...

Passionate about her interests, be it friends, cats or fiction. - [livejournal.com profile] nightbeast

ENJOYS WAYCEST WHEN OFF HER ASS ON TEQUILA! (bad lesbian, bad!) - [personal profile] kat_lair

Very lovely, a great hostess and possesses a book collection I would totally mug her for if she wasn’t so damn adorable. Small, sweet, bookworm, fangirly, welcoming, warm-hearted. - [livejournal.com profile] missfoxie

Always willing to go above and beyond for others. And is sexy in glasses. - [livejournal.com profile] theastolat

Small, cute and definitely weird enough. - [livejournal.com profile] megamole

A super intelligent, talented lady who has fantastic humour, wit and spirit. She is my cat's favourite auntie and a true friend. One of the few really good, genuine people in this crazy messed up world! - Naomi P.



Favourite Quotes
  • "You do not divide yourselves, women, into male and female. Get it together. And men, as well! Stop living this divided, dual consciousness and bring your masculine and feminine [sides] together, because it can be extraordinary."

    "...When you're ready to give, that's when you're in love."
    -- Mary McDonnell


  • "When you get into a tight place and everything goes against you, till it seems as though you could not hold on a minute longer, never give up, for that is just the place and time that the tide will turn."
    -- Harriet Beecher Stowe


  • "Growing old is mandatory; growing up is optional."
    -- "Chili" Davis



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Places to Go

unfaithful-mirror.net - my hub & primary domain

joyunending.net - my fiction, fanfiction & poetry archive

unfaithful_illusion - my BookMooch profile & inventory

@trialia; @trialia2 - my Twitter & backup

Amazon wishlist

Stuck between floors with {Mary McDonnell}

Raptr | Playfire

LibraryThing book catalogue | GoodReads



PSN Gamercard - Playfire - Trialia_XPSN gamercard @ Playfire


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